Leight Bluemur
Private Life Advisor
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I work privately with people under
real pressure — when something
is already weighing on them, a
decision can't be delayed, or
personal life and responsibility
are starting to collide.This is not just about growth or
goals. It's about steady guidance
when sound judgement and
perspective are needed now
─ so pressure doesn't turn
into damage.I offer strategic, personal guidance
─ a trusted, private place to think
clearly and take the right next
steps, without added pressure,
exposure or unnecessary
disruption.
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What You Get:
Trusted Guidance When It MattersTogether, we focus on what's most
important ─ immediately
and long-term.
___________• Safeguard your wellbeing
and what matters most
─ from everyday pressures to
burnout, major life changes, or
urgent relationship challenges.• See situations clearly when
emotions or pressure
distort judgment
─ gain perspective and avoid
costly missteps.• Make sound decisions in
work and personal life
─ take confident action without
second guessing.• Strengthen communication
and relationships
─ prevent misunderstandings
before they grow into
distance or conflict.• Lead with composure
instead of reaction
─ stay steady when others
are stressed or reactive.• Focus on what truly matters,
not just what's urgent
─ prioritize decisions that preserve
your health, relationships,
and long term-goals.
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When People Typically
Reach Out
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• A relationship feels strained,
distant, or tense — one wrong
conversation could make it worse.• Work pressure is spilling into home
life, patience, or health.• Burnout is creeping in, but stepping
back feels impossible.• A major decision is approaching —
gain clarity before acting.• Family dynamics are shifting in
uncomfortable ways.• Stress is affecting sleep, mood, or presence at home.These moments don’t always look
urgent — but they require judgment
and direction, not silence or
guesswork.
Why Guidance Matters Early
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Pressure doesn’t usually break
things all at once — it erodes
them quietly:• People stay “on” too long and run
themselves down.• A spouse carries more than
they should, alone.• Kids feel distance before
adults notice it.• Loved ones sense something’s
wrong but don’t know how to help.
__________________________Without guidance, stress slowly
wears down health, connection,
identity, and time for what matters.During transitions — breakups,
burnout, loss, or career shifts —
the risk of costly missteps is highest.Early, steady guidance often prevents far bigger consequences later.
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Who This Is For
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• Leaders & Providers:
Handle responsibility well — stay
effective at work while
present at home.• Partners & Loved Ones:
Confidence that someone you care
about has calm, capable support —
without escalation or judgment.• Families:
Restore steadiness and connection
so stress doesn’t become
distance or resentment.• Young Adults:
Structured guidance through
decisions around career,
relationships, and identity —
reducing overwhelm and
second-guessing.• Anyone in Transition:
Support when life is shifting and
clarity matters most — so you’re
not facing it alone.
What Clients Notice
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Subtle, stabilizing shifts that
change how life feels:
_____________________•“Our home feels calm again — not
perfect, but peaceful.”•“I stopped reacting and started
leading — at work and at home.”•“We caught the drift before it
became distance.”•“For the first time in years, I have
space to think clearly.”When your mind steadies and
relationships settle, success stops
feeling like weight — and starts
feeling like a life again.
What We Actually Work OnThis isn't abstract life advice ─
We deal with real situations now:
_____________________________• Strained relationships:
Communicate, resolve tension,
rebuild connection before small
issues become permanent distance.• Work consuming everything:
Set boundaries that hold, say no
without guilt, protect personal
and family time without
harming your career.• Burnout or running on empty:
Manage energy, delegate wisely,
and step back without
everything falling apart.• Major life decisions:
Career changes, business pivots,
relationship crossroads — gain
clear decisive direction without
second-guessing.• Family dynamics breaking down:
Repair relationships with partners,
children, or aging parents before
regret or resentment sets in.• Stress affecting health:
Address downtime issues, stress
symptoms, and neglected self-care
before they worsen.
____________________________You receive direct guidance on
what to say, what to do, and how to
handle situations that feel
difficult to manage alone.
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Not Sure If This Is Right For You ?
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That’s normal.Most people aren't used to
discussing personal pressure
with someone new - especially
if they're used to being the
strong one.The first conversation isn’t about
sharing everything. It’s simply a
private, calm time to see
whether this kind of
guidance feels right.No pressure. No judgment.
No commitment.Send a private message first —
completely confidential, at
your own paceOr
Ways to work together
We start with a 30-min
conversation.
To see if we're a fit and
if I can genuinely help.
No pressure, no commitment.
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makes sense:All sessions can be by phone,
video call, or in person at my office
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🌱 Single Strategy Meeting -
$150For moments when something is
active and waiting isn't an option.• Private meeting ( up to 90 min)• Immediate perspective
and direction• Clear next steps ─ what to say,
what to do, what to avoidMost people start here to get
clear before taking action.
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🌿 Monthly Advisory -
$500/monthOngoing guidance to keep
pressure from turning into
disruption• 4 private meetings/month
(up to 90 minutes each)• Direct text/call access
between meetings for quick
guidance on pressing matters.• Actively engaged in your situation
so decisions, conversations, and
timing don't fall on you alone.
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🌳 Private Full-Time Advisor -
$1,200/month (3 month minimum)Reliable, on call guidance for
complex or high pressure
situations• 4-6 meetings/month (up to 90 min),
including urgent support as needed.• Unlimited same-day
text/call access.• Proactive guidance across work,
family, relationships, and
big life transitions.Ensuring you have a trusted
partner for every challenge
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Client Experiences
_____________________•“Saved my marriage while I was
growing my company."
— Michael•“My kids finally have their
dad back.”
— Rhonda•"Finally stopped the cycle that
destroyed my dad."
— Nick•“The pressure of responsibility
was eating me alive. I live lighter
now."
— David“I finally have my husband back.
Our family life is back".
— Sharon"Our daughter now has a new
career path she enjoys."
— Jennifer"I bounced back from business
challenges personally and
professionally."
─ Henri
My Story
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I know what happens when
wellbeing is neglected —
because I lived it.I lost my father far too early. Later,
I faced my own struggles with
pressure and success, learning
how easily health, peace, and
family can be traded for achievement
— and how costly that trade can be.Through lived experience and years
of working privately with clients, I
developed practical ways to rebuild
and grow without losing yourself or
the people you care about.Now, I offer that same steady
presence, perspective, and
guidance to others."The life that fits your purpose
rarely looks like the one
you first imagined."
MY PROMISEIf you don't see meaningful
improvement, we part ways —
no pressure or hard feelings.
LET'S TALKTake a step—before pressure
quietly becomes something larger.[Schedule a Private
Conversation]Not ready yet? Send a private
message first—completely
confidential, at your own pace.
____________________________Disclaimer: I am not a licensed
therapist, counselor, or medical
professional. My services offer
private, non-clinical support
and are not a substitute for
therapy or professional
mental health care.
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